Newly married couple never think there is no solution to your family challenges

In the last article we discussed some of the challenges newly married couples usually faced as they start to take responsibility of their way of family life ,below are some of the constructive suggestions married couples should have to consider when going on with squabble of a new marriage way of living.
The solutions therefore solely ean on consulting together so that you can build the bond which both of you agreed to trust ,honestly and also consider your partner in whatever the decisions you need to take in simple communication which is freely open in your marriage family.
The open communication in mariage is when you discuss matters that will affect one of you.Then you find the consensus to handle the matter as you present your thoughts as suggestions rather than final decisions.The way you allow questions from your partner must be flexible enough for your partner 's opinion to be out of your heart so that you acknowledge it without sticking to your own interests.
There are some people who are naturally rigid ,they express their habit bluntly. I think this is mostly influenced by cultural background.This way of expressing yourself without consider you partner is usually considered an abusive action which may cause uncontrollable stress to one another.
By learning to be tactful and assume that doing this can cause friction with my mate in this way you prevent it before you found difficulties in correcting it.
In every situation not necessarily marriage life alone ,but life in general it is good to view your partner as a best friend than to be a husband or wife. The way you treat or consider your best friend ,that's also how you should do as couples. But the disaster of taking yourselves as husband and wife you tend to evaluate some of the roles you take in wedlock life and definitely the mistakes are many than strengths. Consequently there arise unmanagable conflicts which even outburst into divorce or domestic violence.
If you take yourselves as best friends you would risk to lose your friendship by how you express the tone of your voice or choice of words ,certainly not ,so think of the reasons why you decide the two of you to have a family out of this vast pool of choices to get married.
New couples may at times involved in headship and uncustomed crises when they take their roles in a new family set up.
As couple it is necessary to be adaptable to you new family roles and as best friends you go on help each other to perform own roles in a conducive atmosphere.You see most of us we do the wrong things because some of our partners are still childish who only talk or comment when you done something wrong.
Finally for people who need to endure their lasting relationships.They set reasonable expectation to each other.When your partner is now geared to be a father do not expect it to be perfect overnight . To be a father or mother is not all about academic achievement ,but it takes a considerable experience to reach the desired goals.