Remain connected, some people talk to their friends only once in a blue moon,they never comeback again to ask about life ,share jokes or just communicate in general. Imagine you say I have a friend which you talk to only once a year. Your friendship easily fades away and some of your friends never regards you as a friend.When you are on the social sites send messeges to your friends at a reasonable regular periods and give them jokes just for social interaction. For those who sell some products talk to them about your products how important are they in their life and if you have free things share them with your friends,you can give them free gifts in this way they recognise you as a mutual friend.But remember not all people like freebies. These days consumers buy brands that talk to them ,so your social account may be an engine that generate so many sales if you customise it.You need to talk with your friends in any matters of life,fearing that you may say wrong thing or make mistakes will limite you to find how powerful friendship is good to you.
Be helpful ,the needs of different friends vary always . But on different time friends may need help ,rather than a general offer. Be open to them and see you as a helpful friend. A friend in need is a friend indeed friends need help on how to do with household management ,that's anything to do with food, clothing ,shopping and money management in general ,don't worry to be an expert but be a jack of all trades ,master of none ,one day you will succeed.The few practical ways you share with your friends show that you care. Be dependable ,puntual and alert to meet commitments help to retain friendship easily.However when helping a friend don't assume that you know everything your friends need . Ask them and give your own suggestions within the limits of your knowledge or refer them to where they can get help. Help friends to be competent,not feel victimised or to be robots but to be reflective in their own right and rationality.
Be a good listener ,when sharing anything with a friend listen attentively and sympathetically . For you to be in a position to response to your friend's feelings is only when you are given enough information to take appropriate action. The only way to succeed is to get more information from your friends by listening attentively without interupting when a friend is talking. Friends are not necessarily look for answers only, but they also look for a friend who attended to them with an open heart and mind.
Be upbuilding ,if your are a positive friend your words and actions will likely reveal it. Always get to the situation where you first build your friendship .Relate to the needs which you feel drawn you to be friends not the other circumstances taking place later. Treat you friend as a simple normal person who needs interaction socially .Don't talk with him/her as if he/she is a stupid.A friend considers what you say and how you say it. The language you use,tone of your voice can affect friendship.
Be empathetic and considerate by putting yourself in the situation of your friends. If you are telling them about specific products as an example ,be genuine,trustworthy ,honesty and humble person before them. Don't force them to make the decisions that only promote your business rather than what they benefit them. The moment they realised that you are a hyena in sheep 's wools ,they easily desert you and never get another confidence to have friendship anymore.
Respect your friends' privacy never sell their emails to the scammers,or publicise them without their concerns,don't give out information unabated. Be a good socialiser and make a positive partner for the mutual growth of your friendship. One way of being considerate is balancing and good judgements that benefits both of you as friends .
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