The major influencer of marriage life is sex. We born because of sex ,we think along our sexual behaviors,we make rules to distinguish acceptable sexual values and we make our marriage relationships strong along the sexual attitudes. You don't agree? Lets go down together discussing the sexual attitudes in the marriage life and how it makes us have children.
The word 'sex' in a wedlock means intimation of couples passing romantic sexual phases up to their climax enjoy the natural romantic gift of sexual love.
According to Abraham Maslow's hierachy of needs sex is part of of the basics which a man can not live without.Does that mean someone 's life is impossible simply because he lacked a partner to intimate with? NO! In this case sex is now a complex word which include the way we think ,our behaviors as be formulated by how we look to others and how others say comments about us.Aristotle once says human beings are both sexual and social animals. Sex begins in the womb and ends in the tomb.''Children are exposed to many visual ,stimulating sexual images through television ,radio and advertisements.It's normal for them to simulate intercourse and discover the pleasure of self-stimulation(masturbation)It doesn't mean that they're experiencing arousal and organism in the same way that an adult(couples in the marriage) would. It's merely a soothing ,ticklish ,pleasant feeling.''(Living &Loving January1999) And other new habits adopted in society from other societies,new dress code,from celebrities ,new way of designing our homes in short means sexy thinking.The way we are sexually motivated in the wedlock is more impact even to the way we conceive and on the behaviour of our children in the family.
''Good sex helps conception ,Canadian scientists have found that a woman 's more likely to become pregnant if she has an orgasm when making love. Women were tested two hours after they'd sex to measure the sperm content in cervical mucus. Only 10 percent who said they'd bad 'good' sex had a negative test result compared to 50 percent who didn't. So if you're trying to conceive ,start planning a few romantic surprises for your partner.''How perfect is this study to reveal sexuality in marriage (Living &Loving January1999).
In the marriage life sex plays important roles of conception and sexual affection.
It is necessary for the wife and husband should teach and learn to each other to get involved in sexual moral values about the way they need to enjoy sex and plan for their painless conception in romantic sex.In other words when they are exploring sexual needs ,be it caressing ,fondling or sexual messaging ,let it be understandable to the couples in all forms of sexuality to be celebrated rather than punished.
Even during pregnancy sex is very safe, some pregnant women thought it risk to their health and their sexual desire fluctuates more often during pregnancy,usually at the first pregnancy phase because of some rapid changes taking place in the body ,the desire for sex is evaporated , despite the husband need to have sex. But during the the last two phases of pregnancy the desire of sex perhaps is at its strongest ,hence couples should inclusively enjoyed as the vagina is well-lubricated and remember in very few months the baby will greatly disturb your sexual needs.
Although it is very safe and perfect to enjoy healthy sex during pregnancy ,in contrast it may be hindered by vaginal bleeding ,pain during penetration ,history of miscarriages and frequent pregnant pains.
Possibly the problem of placenta praevia cause by the placenta being partially implanted over the cervix or completely affected.In this case sexual intercourse should be avoided except other forms of sex. Therefore consult medical practitioner to be helped to indulged into penetrative sex.
Ironically some couples experience one partner with NO desire for sex especially the wives. According to gynaecologists ,nothing kills sexual desire as quickly as having children. Yes babies are the most killers of romantic sex in couples as they cry for their time to be attended to exclusively! Mothers failed to please their husband on their sexual matters since their desire for sexual intimacy taken away naturally few weeks after childbirth.This challenge needs brave decision to double both your child and husband needs. Remember the family is composed of these people altogether ,whilst your baby is sleep its a comfortable time to call your husband to play in all sexual activities ,don't opt to sleep before engage your hubby in romantic sexual activities never ever!
Sexy objects include things like flowers,colours, facial expressions,hugs ,kisses, affection and sexy attitudes should be available in the wedlock.
If you and I come to the notion that we are sex-based. And ,in doing that we are sexing ourselves. We are settling for a view of ourselves in extremes ,says life is nothing more than what sex work within our five senses.Espeacially on it primary social institution in the family marriage life's relationships
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